Hope for those newly diagnosed with cancer

This entry was posted on Thursday, August 13th, 2015 at 9:08 AM and is filed under Becoming

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“The wisdom of the body is responsible for 90% of the hope of patients to recover.  The body has a super wisdom that is in favor of life, rather than death.  This is the power that we depend on for life.  All doctors are responsible for letting their patients know of this great force within them.”

 — Dr. Richard Cabot, Harvard MD

 

Given the news  yesterday of former president Jimmy Carter’s cancer diagnosis, I am opting to share now insights and research from my book in development.

Sadly, millions of others will receive similar news this year. A total of 1,658,370 new cancer cases and 589,430 cancer deaths are projected to occur in the United States in 2015, according to January 5, 2015 statistics presented in CA:  A Cancer Journal for Clinicians, a bimonthly peer-reviewed medical journal published for the American Cancer Society by Wiley-Blackwell.

However, there is great hope for healing. I am passionate about sharing information on ways those newly diagnosed can center and ground themselves so their bodies can heal faster.

Below is an excerpt of an interview I gave to the Anti-Cancer Club. The full blog post can be seen here:

 

Gail, can you tell us about your breast cancer diagnosis and the emotional and physical impact it has had on your life?

“A cancer diagnosis changes your psyche forever, in that there is a loss of innocence that occurs in realizing that to live life fully, and hopefully with great longevity, changes need to be made. Cancer is often a wake-up call; the soul’s prompting to redirect your life. To be fully engaged and committed to the healing journey, survivors need to understand that cancer is not just a physical disease that needs to be healed. True healing encompasses four components: physical, mental, emotional and spiritual.

On the physical front, initial changes I made included changing my diet by eliminating wheat, refined sugar and dairy, which resulted in my losing 30 pounds. Weight loss was not my intention, although I was later told by a breast surgeon that by removing fat cells from my body I had naturally achieved what drugs like Tamoxifen do–without the side effects!

I have always loved exercise, particularly walking in nature. However, I added more gentle “mind-body” types of exercise, like yoga and Tai Chi.

Mentally, I trained my mind to align with body’s innate ability to heal through several modalities, which I outline in my book.

Spiritually, I made and continue to make lots of time to sit in quiet, meditate and simply listen for messages of guidance. The body is very wise and “knows” how to guide us forth if we pay attention.

Emotionally, I rid myself of all toxic people and situations. I believe the emotional component of addressing the negativity from earlier conditioning or past traumas, is the most often overlooked part of the healing journey. I definitely believe growing up as the daughter of a schizophrenic, and living in “fight or flight” mode for so many years, contributed to my body wearing down.

Re-training the mind and body to live from greater calm is a must. I spent three months at the Mind Body Program for Cancer at Massachusetts General Hospital, where I learned that those who are in a mind body program (which is different than “a support group”) live 2 to 2.5 times longer. Again, I explain more of that learning in my book in progress.

For now, I can share that in calming my body and slowing down, I underwent a deeply introspective phase where I learned how to live from the inside out, choosing to make decisions based on love versus fear. I teach others how to do that in my coaching practice, and also through my book.  That book is about 90 percent complete and I am currently seeking a publisher so it can reach the masses more quickly.

Can you tell us the message behind your blog, “The Bravest Thing I’ve Ever Done”?

That blog, The Bravest Thing I’ve Ever Done, describes my calling to write my book, which came in the middle of the night. Although I had been a professional journalist, writer, and marketer for 30 years, I initially vowed I would keep my cancer journey private. God had another plan for me.

Three weeks after my lumpectomy, I jumped out of bed with the name of my book (which I cannot disclose until I have a publisher) and wrote steadily for a few days, barely even stopping to eat. I was guided to deliver a message to teach others what to do “at” (and someday preferably “before”) a diagnosis. I share intimate details of my journey, along with coaching tips and research and leading-edge healing resources I discovered as a journalist.

As I evolved spiritually, I continued to receive other messages to share. I think a recent blog post of mine, Signs of Life Renewed, may offer great hope and inspiration (at least until I get my book published!).

What is your mission in life as a life coach?

My mission as a coach is to help clients build a strong foundation of self-love, by helping them discover and release subconscious limiting beliefs that often were hard-wired in during the first five to seven years of life. We all (even coaches) need someone to mirror back to us what those hidden beliefs are.

Through the work of Bruce Lipton, Ph.D, and Gregg Braden, I learned many years ago that 90 percent or more of our daily actions are responses from that early conditioning and less than 10 percent of our choices/habits are truly conscious.

More specifically:

“Almost universally, the experiences that cause people to feel stuck have roots in what are considered negative beliefs created early in life. And, it’s precisely because they are subconscious that it’s often difficult for us to see them in ourselves.”— Gregg Braden, The Spontaneous Healing of Belief.

“The moment you change your perception is the moment you rewrite the chemistry of your body.” – Dr. Bruce Lipton.

By combining my skills as a journalist with leading-edge, brain-based coaching tools, I help clients create powerful wording to transform these limiting beliefs and establish new neural pathways in the brain to attract new outcomes.

Long-term, as a visionary, I hope one day to bring my belief work to children so they don’t have to spend their adult lives “undoing” all that early conditioning. I also think by establishing strong beliefs around self-esteem and connecting with their body’s innate ability to be and stay healthy we can help them prevent getting diseases like cancer. That’s an entirely different article we can pursue at another time.

You call yourself a life coach and wellness revolutionary. Can you explain what a wellness revolutionary is?

I define a wellness revolutionary as one who takes responsibility for their own health, by embracing the four components I referenced earlier: physical, mental, spiritual and emotional.

I also believe in what is now being called the new “energy medicine,” where we can align our minds with our bodies’ innate ability to heal. Being with like-minded others who hold that intention with us helps, as I witnessed in the Mind Body Program for Cancer at Massachusetts General Hospital and also through several other healing modalities in which I participated.

I also view my cancer diagnosis as a calling to serve and live from love versus fear, and believe it is part of my bigger life mission of teaching spiritual principles in practical ways.

How important is complementary treatment to healing?

Complementary medicine is extremely important, particularly because it helps patients align with their own power in the process of healing instead of deferring to a doctor or another authority to make them well. Learning to collaborate with health care providers versus be directed by them is essential.

Also, some naturopathic doctors can prescribe natural supplements, which I believe can be helpful at the beginning of healing to bring the body back in balance, but over the long-term we should get back our nutrients from healthy, unprocessed foods.

One of the most important and often overlooked aspects of complementary treatment is the time and nurturance provided by many naturopathic doctors and alternative healers, for example. Most conventional MDs must meet quotas of seeing so many patients an hour and despite some of their best efforts, they simply do not have the time to provide the compassionate, loving care that helps heal.

In the words of bestselling author Dr. Lissa Rankin, who wrote Mind Over Medicine: “Nurturing care explains why many patients often experience remarkable results when treated by complementary and alternative medicine (CAM) treatments, which include such therapies as acupuncture, Chinese medicine, homeopathy, Reiki, herbal medicine, energy medicine, craniosacral therapy, chiropractic medicine, and other modalities.”

Also, while conventional medicine is needed and necessary for diagnostic information and treatment, if pursued, many of these MDs are not trained in nutrition, and we know that proper diet can help heal cancer. However, even some nutritionists are not familiar with the best cancer diet so it is important to choose your health care team thoughtfully.”

If you would like to learn more about my book on healing and creating a mindset for living beyond cancer, or be placed on an announcement list when the book is published, please email: GailJones@SupportMatters.com.

And, if you know of someone touched by cancer, may you be inspired to share this blog post.  Giving people hope for possibilities of positive outcomes can be extraordinarily healing in itself.  The words we use are so powerful.

In wellness and on purpose,

Gail

The calming photo above by Bill Robertson was taken at Joppa Park, Newburyport, MA, which was one of my favorite places to ground and center myself before relocating to Scottsdale, AZ.

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2 Responses to “Hope for those newly diagnosed with cancer”

  • Gail, I so look forward to your posts. I am so grateful for how you empower me and so many others by teaching us how to more deeply integrate self-love and a greater sense of well-being and purpose. No one understands the emotional and spiritual components of healing better than you. I am proud to say that you have been my personal coach these past 1600 days of my life as I healed through the death of my spouse.. While your journey is about being a breast cancer survivor (or thriver as you call it), those of us who have lost our spouses and loved ones have gone through a journey that no one knows. The biggest part of the journey is everything you have written about these past 1600 days. I look back at your posts now 1600 days later and how I love myself, how I have nurtured myself in to be this incredible human being that has so much to offer to the world. And now, at 66, it is all about “New Beginnings” for me. Loving ourselves; taking the oxygen for ourselves first and then we can give back to others in whatever we choose to do in life. We can do anything and everything we want to if we just let go. Get rid of the FEAR and Feel Everything All Right–mentally, physically, emotionally and spiritually as you so wisely teach. You also inspire me to be selective in aligning with others who hold the same high vibration for health and new life possibilities. Thank you for being my Coach and I love sharing your blog and cannot wait to read your upcoming book. And thanks, too, for sharing the truth of Wayne Dyer’s death, which will give hope to many who are healing from the inside out.

  • Gail Kauranen Jones:

    Hannah: I am so thrilled for you that you are well on your way to a “new beginning,” reinventing yourself at age 66. Thanks for sharing, too, how my coaching and blogs inspired you. And we’re all thankful to learn the truth of Wayne Dyer’s death as it was part of his legacy — or “song” as he calls it–to teach others how to live and manifest from intention. Blessings, Gail

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